F#$k It

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Curveballs have been lobbed thick and fast over the past few days, weeks, months… Years, really.

At times life feels like a brutal game of dodgeball. Where you were picked last, for a team of one, rules bend mercilessly and you have to play zipped up in a sleeping bag full of squirrels. You just can’t win.

F#%k It dhoops are a response to this heinous game. Yep, that happened, this is happening and the only guarantee is that more shit will happen. Here at Fermata, we want to invite you to just roll with it, like a panda in the snow. Or like a duck, let it slide right off your back. Accept what is beyond your control, keep paddling and don’t give a flying.

After all, most of what is thrown at us, with speed and alarming accuracy, is well beyond our control, so let’s try to control what we can - our own thoughts.

So, quietly confirm a new mantra, with all the serenity of your Yoga teacher and the grit of RBG. Breathe deeply and whisper to yourself: Fuck it, FFFFFFuck it (long inhale), Fuck iiiiiiiiiT (long exhale).

Our F#%k It dhoop is not a call to lay down, give up or give in. Please keep fighting the good fight! But, fuck it, why not give yourself a break and take a moment for pause and acceptance? Surrender to all that is beyond your control, and find peace in letting it be. Even if the ‘it’ is whopping and weighty and overwhelming. Have a crack at just accepting it all, because, fuck it, this too shall pass.

Not everyone will like the scent of this dhoop (or our use of coarse language) but, fuck it, we do. F#%k It dhoops are akin to our Ground and Reset dhoops, robust, herbaceous and strong - thanks to Clary Sage, Tsuga and Rosemary.

Clary Sage, we heart you, with your sweet scent that encourages us to be at ease, to balance the inner spirit and find a moment of tranquillity. Clary Sage aids in accepting what we cannot control and its unmistakable woody scent balances the earthy base of Tsuga and Rosemary.

Tsuga or Hemlock, not the weed of Socrates’ tea of death, but a wonderful tree member of the Pinaceae family, has a grounding and woody scent that can bring a sense of comfort during stressful times and promote relaxation.

Rosemary, grown in our Koputai garden, can smoothe the edges at a ragged time. Rosemary has your back, encouraging, uplifting and energising your mind.

Accept the invitation to experience a moment of acceptance, shake it off, breathe ‘fuck it’, and duck and dive like the pro that you are.

Good fucking luck, take care x Fermata

Four hand-moulded Dhoops per box.

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  • Ships from Dunedin, New Zealand.
  • $5.00 Tracked within NZ
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